Success Is A F.A.R.C.E. (Part 3)Darshan | Tuesday, February 14th, 2012 | No Comments »
The third step in being truly successful in business or in life is to be 100% responsible for everything you do.
Need I say more?
The truth is that you are responsible, even if you don’t think you are. You are responsible even if you don’t want to be. There is no escaping responsibility. Since that’s the case, you might as well make it work for you.
Take the results you have in your business. If you’re not as productive as you want to be, if you don’t have the success you want, if you don’t have the money you want, if you don’t have the time freedom you want, there’s a reason… and it’s easy to find.
Just look at in those areas where you’ve avoided responsibility and where you have made excuses and where you have given up or settled. And then reverse them. Now that concept sounds great, but how do you make it a reality?
Well, that goes to the biggest point of all about responsibility. When you do this first, everything else starts to naturally fall in place.
Take 100% responsibility for you. You are your number one responsibility. You are the most important person. Now I’m not talking about your ego and a false sense of self-importance. I’m talking about the truth of you. That truth is that you are magnificent, terrific, fabulous, awesome, amazing, divine, talented and you are priceless.
You couldn’t be any other way. How do I know this? Simple.
Just look back at when you were a baby? When you were going, “Goo Goo, Ga, Ga” the whole world revolved around you. And you knew it. Everyone doted on you and loved you just because you were you and not for any other reason.
Then as you got a little older, some negative programming crept in. Maybe your parents told you that you couldn’t have some candy. Maybe your sibling started to pick on you. Maybe you didn’t get the attention you wanted from your parents. Maybe you got picked on at school.
You get the idea.
Well those experiences began to program you for failure because after having so many repeated experiences, you started to believe them. And then after years and years of those beliefs and experiences, they became you.
Well, I’m here to tell you right now that you don’t have to abide by those beliefs anymore. You needed them when you were growing up to help you to get by, to help you to survive. Well, you don’t need to survive anymore. It’s time for you to thrive.
And when you take full responsibility for all that’s great about you and stop believing all the “lesser” stuff, you most certainly will start to thrive.
You won’t fear success anymore. You won’t fear failure anymore. You will set big goals… and achieve them. You will make more money and have more success than you’ve ever had. You’ll be more fulfilled, satisfied, happier, healthier and excited about your life, your business or both.
So, think about what you’ve just read and apply it to your life. Make it real and it will make a difference.